Leave it to the beauty of the Persian culture to bring more excitement to the age old tradition of cake cutting. The elaborate tradition that has surfaced in more recent years encourages a level of playfulness for the bride and groom prior to every getting the knife. Persian knife dancing — Raghseh Chagoo. Those words conjure images of ornately clad women wearing colorful scarves and skirts, chain and coin belts delicately balancing large swords on their heads as the dance around a room. To my disappointment, it does not involve such an elaborate display (but certainly would make a great option!)
Of course I have scoured the internet to find you a few video examples. I just love the groom’s job of convincing the bride’s family representatives to give him the knife. A playful dance, set to music, ensues and is much like a lighthearted fencing match where the groom is expected to pay out money in order to impress the knife-holder who will then hand over the utensil . . . or not yet. It’s a teasing, funny tradition I am absolutely in love with!



