Unlike modern ceremonies, traditionally the ‘Aghd’ is held at the bride’s parent’s home. Guests are greeted by close family member and the ceremony begins. Guests seated, the groom walks up to the front of the ‘Sofreh ye Aghd’, and sits on the right side, which is considered the side of respect according to Zoroastrian culture. He is later joined by the bride who sits on the left.
The ‘Sofreh ye Aghd’, the backdrop used on the floor, is customarily passed from mother to daughter or occasionally, to son, but is commonly rented these days from decorators. It is made of luxurious fabric, Termeh” (Cashmere), “Atlas” (Satin with golden embroidery) or “Abrisham” (Silk). Many symbolic items are placed on the spread to create a beautiful design. Two of the most significant items are the mirror, ‘Aayeneh ye Bakht’ and the Candelabras.
Traditionally the Groom’s family is responsible to purchase both of these items, often coming from Iran. The large central mirror is placed directly in front of the Bride and Groom and should be large enough that all the witnesses behind them can see everyone. The mirror and candles are considered to be two very important items in Persian society, as they signify the fate and bright light that shines into the couple’s future. They symbolize light and fire as well as the Zoroastrian faith.
