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Sandalwood & Hara
{Couture Promotions} | Cultural Brides NEEDED to Win Dream Honeymoon!
Hi Ladies,
Today’s post is going to be a quick one, but a super fabulous opportunity for you! Have you ever watched reality tv wedding series…ok that was a dumb question. Of course you have!
One of the new series, and one of my favorites, TLC’s Four Weddings is currently in “booking” season and looking for YOU!

If you’re not quite up on the series, it takes 4 brides and has them compete for a dream honeymoon. The 4 brides have already planned their weddings and agree to attend each other’s wedding as guest. Each bride then scores the other bride’s wedding based on various categories, including over all experience. Of course know one know until the end who wins. The winning bride’s groom steps out of a black limousine with a bouquet of flowers to present to his winning bride…aaaawe. It’s such a great series and great for quick inspiration.
Check out the video:
SO, what does this mean for you? Well the network needs to start interviewing brides for this upcoming season’s episodes. At this point, I’ve seen mainly Western Weddings. The only “cultural” wedding I saw was a Greek event. So I think we need an influx of Cultural Weddings on the show. I need to see South Asian and Indian Weddings featured. As well as Persian and Chaldean weddings!
Alright ladies, here are the deets. You simply need to email your date and WHERE you are located tlcbrides@gmail.com or call 212-505-7775 x102 or x106 ASAP! We are currently looking for brides with weddings that will take place from OCTOBER 2010 through MARCH 2011 in the NEW YORK/NEW JERSEY areas AND the greater MIAMI, FLORIDA area.
NY/ NJ brides — send an e-mail to: TLCBrides@gmail.com
MIAMI, FL brides — send an e-mail to: 4WeddingsMiami@gmail.com
They say they are looking for brides in NY/NJ and Miami, but I think we definitely need some MidWest love as well…so flood their in-boxes!
They need to hear from you!

{Bridal Sutra} | Divine Jewelry for Him and Her – Jodhaa Akbar Colletion by Tanishq
Jeweler: Tansihq, Photography: Sharon Nayak
Since I am such a visually driven individual myself, I’ve decided Friday’s is all about Visual Inspiration. Whatever I’ve come across that speaks, or rather YELLS at me to pay attention. I am so excited to share visual inspiration today from the Jodhaa Akbar Collection by Tanishq.
Who said the bride gets to have all the fun with jewelry? I love the jewel encrusted swords and daggers included in this collection!
Pearls and Jade! Wow!
In addition to displaying amazing jewelry, I love the visual perspective the photographer took on this shoot. Subtle, gorgeous and striking! I’m drawn into every image.


Tradition Tuesday – Episode 2.5
I was inspired by the opening ceremonies Friday in Vancouver. What an amazing spectacle and event! Isn’t it amazing how much can be done with lighting and fabric. Ok, so there are a lot of other things involved. I also love the incorporation of the First Nation cultural elements into the ceremony.
Jack Poole, the Vancouver Olympic Committee Board Chairman, said “If it hadn’t been for the full support of the Four Host First Nations in our bid, we likely wouldn’t be talking about Vancouver 2010 today.” So of course the four Host First Nations — a group that represents the four bands whose traditional lands are home to the Vancouver Olympics — were asked to play a prominent part in the opening ceremony on Friday. And more inspiration will follow from that this week!
SO, in the custom of Tradition Tuesday, I researched wedding customs of the Four Host First Nation, or aboriginals of Canada. There are so many original tribes, and similar to the Native American’s of The United State, many traditions cross multiple groups. Here is just the tip of the tundra . . .
Marriage customs involved the groom arriving at the bride’s home at daybreak. He sat at the entrance to the house and was wrapped in a blanket with only his face exposed. The bride’s family ignored him and proceeded with their daily routine. This ritual continued for three days. On the third day, if the bride’s father approved of the match he invited the groom to breakfast. The groom’s father is informed and the wedding ceremony was planned.
Winter was the season for religious ceremonies and celebrations. Religious mediums or shamans performed several rites, including magic against enemies. Both men and women served as shamans, acting in the capacity of spiritual intermediaries and healers. Illness was attributed to wandering souls or to foreign intrusions by an evil spirit. The skill of the shaman depended on his or her ability to rid the sick person of the evil spirit. The shaman presided over periodic fasts that required the participant to abstain from sexual relations and to scrub him or herself with branches in a cleansing ritual. Guardian spirits were prominent and were acquired by individuals during this period of fasting.
Understanding the People
Most First Nations people believe there is a Great Spirit in the universe. This spirit is the source of all life and is embodied in everything. The earth is the Mother of all spirits. The First Nations traditions and culture are greatly influenced by nature.
Here are a few common wedding traditions:
Marriage Requirements
- Pipe Carrier (officiate) determines the responsibilities the couple must perform.
- The bride and groom choose four sponsors. Sponsors – Elders who are well respected and give marital and spiritual guidance to the couple throughout their lives.
- Everyone is invited by word of mouth.
- Bride’s family must make handmade gifts for guests. Gift depends on their talents.
Ceremony
- Ceremonies are preferably outside.
- Water is used as a symbol of purification and cleansing. The bride and groom have a ceremonial washing of hands to wash away past evils and memories of past loves.
- Their commitment is to the Creator. There’s no divorce; if they separate they are still one in the eyes of the Great Spirit.
- Each person makes a declaration they choose to be known as husband and wife, then they smoke from the pipe.
- At the ceremony, the sponsors make a commitment to help the couple.
Wedding Attire
- The bride and groom add rabbit leathers and personal adornments to their traditional skinned attire.
- The bride will wash herself in a body of water (lake, river, ocean, or pond) the morning of her union in order to be blessed by the spirit of the Earth.
Feasting/ Dance
- The food feasted on is indigenous to the location; squirrel, venison, bison, beaver, squash, beans, maize, berries and other fruit.
- The food is blessed symbolizing a happy life together.
- Music is often played by the men. Instruments are water drums, gourd rattles, flutes and whistle

Get Married! Ad due tomorrow – Ugh!
I’ve had a month to get everything ready for the deadline tomorrow. While I’ve gotten the print portion done with ease, the image has been killing me. I’m having the toughest time selecting an image to put in the magazine. I’d love to have a custom logo done, and actually I’ve designed one I really like, but I can’t translate it onto the computer. Since I’m not a graphic artist, I can’t just whip up my own image that is unique to me, so that leaves me with internet images.
So I am looking for something that is unique and doesn’t make the same statement everyone else out there is accustomed. Normally you see flowers, candles, wedding cakes, invitations, brides, grooms, rings and stuff of that sort. We are all aware that this is part of a wedding. But that does not make me unique. It doesn’t make my ad stand out and cry for attention. That is the key to advertising (and my philosophy for a lot of things, including weddings!)
Since ethnic weddings are my focal point, including Chaldean, Indian, Greek, Italian and Jewish weddings, I want a image that reflects my cultural influence in the Wedding Community. I also am looking for something that crosses multiple cultures. While I have found some items that could, the perfect image does not exists that will address all the cultures at one. So here are the images from which I’m selecting.





There are reasons I like each of the images. The first two and the last two are definitely much more Indian in nature, while the last one, while being an Arabic henna design, is an item embraced by the Indian and Arabic culture. The first two and the last one play on the “newest jewel in the Michigan wedding and event landscape” that is in the post, which is the reason why I really like those images. Personally I am drawn to the first image, but the second is softer and could be used by non-Indian brides. And of course I love henna! I think it is a beautiful art form and wish I was gifted with the talent myself!
I still haven’t made a decisive choice, and hope to ask around a bit today before I make the decision. Either way, I will be submitting it tonight by 7pm! YIKES!
By the way, you’ll have to check out the Get Married! January edition to find out exactly which one I picked!
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