Now the first time I read this, I thought, really…you want to heat up my ring. Is that like a branding thing. Then the rings are permanent part of my body regardless of me wearing it or not. But of course, that was just my crazy brain having a bit of fun. This is actually a new ceremony introduced out in California y Eric Schwartz. Kudoos to Style Unvieled for asking what everyone was up to on the illustrious 10.10.10 wedding day this year and finding this little nugget!
From Officiant Eric Schwartz:
You are planning your wedding and want to include a unique feature during the ceremony. What do you choose: a unity candle, blending of the sand, rose ceremony? How about a Ring Warming ceremony. Never heard of it? Most people haven’t. Incorporating non-traditional elements into your ceremony can not only make it even more memorable for you and your guests, but also keep everyone’s attention.
Before you say your vows and exchange your rings, the wedding officiant will ask everyone, including your wedding party to participate in a ring warming. Your officiant will explain to everyone that the ring warming is an opportunity to send the bride and groom good luck and love through a silent wish to the rings when passed to them.
It is a great idea to have one or two people in your wedding party help out with the process of moving the rings from row to row of your guests. Make sure to have the rings in a box or tied together as you don’t want them to get lost.
At the end of the ring warming, your rings are brought back up to the best man or maid of honor until the exchange of rings. If you have less than forty guests, it is possible to do this in less than ten minutes with music playing in the background. (15 seconds per person)
If you have a lot of guests, you may want to consider continuing with the ceremony while your rings are moving. This can be a time for you and the groom to talk to each other and watch the guests. It is a lot of fun and will definitely make your guests talk about your wedding the next day.
We love this idea! Could it work for your ceremony? Are you doing something else new and unique? Share it with everyone in the comments!


