Archive for March, 2010

Bridal Moda | Kimono Fushion

In Japan, brides may wear a colorful silk kimono or a shiromuku, a formal gown passed down over the ages and still used today as traditional bridal dresses. Some Japanese brides choose to wear a modern wedding gown. In Japan, white symbolizes purity, elegance and “new beginning”. Only very traditional Japanese brides don white face makeup, painted red lips, and a wig with expensive combs and decorative ornaments.


Japanese Lifestyle

In the picture below, the bride is wearing a ”Tsuno Kakushi” hood. This is worn to cover the brides “horns”, thus showing her obedience to her new husband. In the picture above you can also see the big “Kanzashi” ornaments in the bride’s hair.


The bride is wearing a gorgeous white “Uchikake” gown, the wedding kimono.  These are also known as the “Shiromuku”.

After the wedding, Japanese bride will change into a more colorful kimono, irouchiakake, a beautiful silk kimono with red, gold, silver, and white colors. This kimono is usually red because red is a lucky color in Japan. It is always heavily embroidered with colorful scenes from nature and often features a crane, which symbolizes a long life. Near the end of the reception, the bride changes into the furisode, a richly patterned kimono with wide sleeves. The tradition symbolizes the last time she will wear the furisode, since only young, unmarried women are allowed to wear them. For this reason, the Japanese wedding dress is often rented rather than bought.


Unless you have Japanese heritage, or just a strong passion for the culture, most of us will never dare to wear a kimono for our wedding gown. So what’s the next best thing?

Bridal fusion, of course.

Something a little more on the traditional vein:

Anna Niponica custom designs beautiful dresses out of gorgeous silk kimonos — *sigh* They are based in Japan, however, they do accept orders from overseas via Paypal.


Something with a bit More Fusion:

Feast your eyes on these beauties from Culture Bridal Couture!

My personal favorite look . . .


· Obi

The Japanese Obi is known as the sash wrapped around a woman’s abdomen to keep her stomach in and flat. It functions almost the same as the traditional corset, but is more comfortable and less stiff. It thus becomes a good alternative in creating a well-fitted form of the bride’s body during her wedding, as it acts to be a part of her overall wedding gown. The obi can look more fabulous when printed with bright red patterns that show traditional Japanese designs. Other designers meanwhile incorporate red with other colors such as gold.


· Kimono

Another common Japanese outfit is the trademark kimono. Japanese women wear this outfit in almost every special occasion in the country, especially weddings. But the kimono evolution has also conquered wedding fashion as well, mainly because of their high-waist form and long, wide sleeves. There’s also a lot of room for fabulous designs for wedding kimonos, thus you can explore the areas where you can drop touches of red in the whole dress. Some wedding kimonos are also drawn with Japan’s traditional items such as cherry blossoms and other flower petals, nature’s elements and the like. Meanwhile, you can explore more creations for your wedding kimono; as long as it maintains its beauty not just as a wedding gown but as representation of Japan’s vast culture.


So what’s your favorite?


 

Tradition Tuesday | Episode 2.11

Gather round for another glimpse into the beloved traditions carried on from generation to generation. As we are highlighting Japanese culture this week, it is only fitting to focus on wedding traditions of Japan. However, if you’ve been reading along, you know we’ve talked about one of the most well known traditions already – the sake ceremony. So . . . diving in deeper, I’ve found some insightful gems especially for guest at a Japanese wedding!


It’s becoming more accepted these days to bring cash instead of gifts to Western weddings, but this is a long standing tradition among the Japanese. In fact, guests are expected to bring cash, and sometimes are even given a specific amount in the wedding invitation. The gift amount is based on the relationship the guest have to the couple.

So, exactly how much to give for a Japanese Wedding Angpow? The average is 30,000 yen (US $500) for a friend’s wedding. Traditionally cash is enclosed in an Angpow envelope called Shugi-Bukuro 祝儀袋 , and your name is written on the front. The envelope is elaborately decorated with gold and silver strings twisted and tied into a decorative knot. Japanese folklore says that the knot is supposed to be impossible to open. It is also important to take note of money etiquette. It’s polite to use new bills with no creasing, and it’s considered bad luck to place two notes in the envelope. They say things that can be split in two are bad luck, so often three notes are found inside.



Worldly Weddings

At the reception, the Shugi-Bukuro is given to the person at the reception desk and you sign the guest book. Be ready, there could be another counter set-up to open your Shugi-Bukuro to check and read aloud the amount you are giving the wedding couple (this could be a good idea, just in case someone give an empty Angpow.) There have been cases recorded in the Chinese newspaper of unknown family with children “POPING-IN” to a wedding dinner and eat for “Free,” and others giving $20 for a family of 5.

After going through these Angpow checkpoints, then you will be direct to your numbered seat by the usher.

There might be more expected of the guest, but not to worry, guest are highly respected in Japan. Traditionally the Japanese bride and groom partakes in a ritual that consists of lighting a candle at every guests table which symbolically shares their warmth and light. This would be a great alternative to the formal receiving line at Western wedding, and a great way to greet and thank your guest for their presence. Additionally, it is not uncommon for the bride and groom to spend $50 or more per guest on the hikidemono (parting gift). These gifts are often tableware, home decorations, and sweets. In recent year, offering your guest a choice from gift catalogs are a popular choice for the hikidemono.


Inside the catalog are a wide variety of gift options…

You got your standard meat and fish…

Neckties and too expensive ball point pens… Pocket watches…


Even Saran Wrap, Ziploc containers, and dust busters…


Japan Newbie

Yay, gifts.

Couples today getting married already have traditional registry items, and yet we still feel obligated to go through the process. Don’t let Western traditions dictate your decision to request monetary gifts from your guest . . . you’re simply adapting Eastern flavor into your festivities! But do take the time to honor the guest in true Eastern fashion, as your guests are your honored guests for the evening!


 

Bridal Moda| Dress Alternatives – Kimono Sytle

The many interpretations of this traditional Japanese style of dress are equally fascinating as they are enticing.  I’ve recently been introduced to the fashion house of Scena D’uno, thanks to one of my favorite style resources: Wedding Nouveau who introduced me to Wedding Inspirasi and now I am ecstatic to be sharing with all of you!

Feast your senses on these imaginative and vibrant Japanese kimonos, inspired by the warmth and blossom of floral chic, brocades and the mist of spring flavor.


I absolutely love this one!! So soft and femine.





…and my personal favorite:


So what do you think?


 

Bridal Moda | Monday Teaser

Happy Friday! Hope you’ve been enjoying the beautiful weather today here in Michigan. Make sure to get out this weekend and enjoy the sun, while it’s here ! Just a quick teaser for next week’s theme and Monday’s beautiful finds!

Have a great weekend!

 

Place Settings – Do You Know How?

Of course most of us will never set the table at our receptions, but it’s important to know the difference between the formal and informal place settings for your big day. Your table setting should continue to reflect your wedding theme and formality to ensure a consistent and beautiful day. For any of you DIY brides, here is a little brush up for your team!

Now this is a fairly basic way to set a table.  Depending on what part of the world you are in it can vary.  Place settings are a great way to personalize your tablescape, even when following the “rules.”


Those are the basics, but as I mentioned before, you can get creative in the styling and presentations of each item!  Cloth napkins are a must for a few reasons.  1. They look so much more elegant than paper, 2. they are environmentally friendly, and of course 3. they can be folded in many ways to dress up the appearance of the table.



If you have simple plates, one way to jazz it up is with colorful napkins and napkin rings. You could use vintage jewelry to make your napkins look simply elegant.  I just love these images I found at Leslie Arna‘s blog site.


Ribbons, twine, broaches, flowers and feathers make great napkin holders, you just need to be resourceful and scavenge for the perfect item! Place mats, chargers, and table runners can also add some drama to your tablescape.


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